看到一段话，I’m talking about rapists and murderers. Leaders of child sex-trafficking rings. The works. And you want to know what they all have in common? They all think people are out to get them. It’s causing me to wonder if distrust doesn’t bring out the worst in us. I know it’s a complicated issue, because nearly everybody I put in prison has been tragically abused and so it’s natural they don’t trust others and they see life as a kill-or-be-killed drama. But it makes me wonder about those of us who deal with the same issue in lesser percentages. I wonder about my own heart. Am I willing to be hurt occasionally and turn the other cheek in order to have a long-term, healthy relationship?
还有will说的，kindness is an acquired taste.
Trust that other people want the best for you.
Believe that you are good for other people.